| |
Archive for the ‘Before Dating’ Category
Mon, June 30, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
Starting a romantic conversation the right way is one of the challenges of dating. People get so much anxious, sometimes nervous, that they forget to kick start the conversation in a pleasant way. Their faces look blank and totally in the dark about what to say next. Conversation skills are required in such situations. Here are some of the best romantic conversation tips that will help you enjoy your date.
Compliment her looks: Women love to be admired. Tell her that she looks very sexy in her outfit! Compliment in a seductive voice. Add some scoring lines like “How did you know fashion so well?”
Ask about her dreams and goals: Today’s women are career- oriented. They strive for achieving excellence in their goals. To make the conversation romantic, talk about her career and goals. Show your interest to know about her aspirations, and her inner enthusiasm.
Ask about her most memorable moments: Ask about her life-changing moments. She will be glad to reply you. She will feel good remembering her most memorable moments.
Ask what her best way to chill out is: This will make the conversation romantic. Talk about exciting and romantic locations that you have been to. Invite her to come along with you if she shows interest in going to those romantic destinations.
Ask about favorite foods and drinks: Share interesting facts about foods and drinks. She may be diet conscious. So, providing her info about the health benefits of common foods and drinks may give way to many ideas for conversation.
Ask about her favorite movies: Ask about her favorite movies. If both of you have equally liked any movie, share your experiences of watching the movie. This may open up a lengthy and interesting conversation about the topic.
Tags: Love, Talk, romance, Family, enjoy, time, fun
Sat, June 28, 2008 10:02 am By Steven Kelley
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
Women may not tell it verbally how they feel for you. However, you can always read their mind by interpreting their body language. If you are skilful enough to decode their inner thoughts, it will be easier to make out whether they are really enjoying your company or not. You ability to understand their body language won’t let you puzzled.
Here are some tips about interpreting female body language that will help you determine her level of attraction to you.
Observe What She Does To Her Hair:
If a woman starts combing or cuddling her hair whenever you look at her, she is trying to impress you or trying to look more attractive in your presence.
Watch Her Finger’s Actions:
Women’s art of seduction is quiet exciting! If she starts fondling her face, neck, chest, arm, thigh or leg in your presence, she is trying to seduce you. This may be a green signal shown by her that she wants you to make your next move.
Watch Her Body Position:
If she is attracted to you or is mesmerized by you, she may often lean towards you and try to point her shoulder and knees towards you.
On the other hand, a woman shows signs of disinterest in you by leaning away from you, crossing her arms and by putting herself in a defensive posture.
Observe her seductive movements:
Watch out for some seductive movements shown by her like revealing her chest, thighs or legs to you, exposing more of her skin by wearing sexy outfit, sagging one shoe with her feet in a crossed leg position. If all these signs are shown by her, then she is conveying her attraction to you and alluring you to make your move.
Tags: Seduction, Body, Language, female, position
Sat, June 7, 2008 10:37 am By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
The greatest entourage ever The Posse picking up women the same way they always do. See the guys get the hotties. Watch and learn!
Tags: Dating, pick, up seduce
Fri, June 6, 2008 8:12 am By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
Pregnant women fall in love with their obstetricians and troubled women fall in love with the psychiatrist, but ALL women–single, married, young, old, upwardly mobile or on the downhill slide–fall in love with their dogs. Yeah dude, dogs! So, get a hang of the canine buddy as he could tell you a lot about your lady love:
If she has a…
1. Watch Dog- Doberman, German shepherd, Boll dog, Bull terriers etc. She’s an Alpha woman at her best. Know how to deal with life. She’s always in control of herself and also manages everything to the best of her capabilities.
2. Big, Medium Dogs- Saint Bernard, Golden Retriever, Labrador etc. these women are attention-getters, who are the ultimate in aristocratic impracticality like willowy models or people who wish they were.
3. Little Dogs- King Charles spaniel, Chihuahua, Pug, Pekingese etc. These women often want something they can protect and lavish affection upon.
Befriend her dog; make sure she’s not of the first category. If you somehow save yourself from the dog, be sure, she won’t spare you!
Tags: dogs, friend, companion, canine, breed
Thu, June 5, 2008 1:59 pm By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
Most men don’t practice “the art of staying single” (read alone). Yeah they do eat pizza alone, watch sports all day and drink with equally lonesome men. But the fact is, they don’t want to be in such situation. At the same time, they are dreaded to even think of walking up to a girl and make a start.
Saw a chick in the bar, Good! Like her, Great! She seems to return your gaze, Amazing! Wish you could have her number? Well you have to look beyond just wanting her number. You have to get her number and then get her!
Walk up to her (don’t forget to carry the infectious smile!), buy her a drink, start a chit-chat, make it interesting, be a little persuasive if she tries to hold back. Ones you have hit the right notes with her, she’ll herself give you her number or better, ask for yours!
Tags: Phone, girl, number, bar, chick, mobile
Sun, May 18, 2008 1:19 pm By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
It is not difficult to approach women, it is only a matter of whether do you know how to do it. In this blog post, let me just share with you 4 simple tips that you can use right away to approach women, anywhere, anytime..
Here are 4 tips that you can use to approach woman.
1. Be humorous. Woman loves to be entertained. By telling a joke, you will create a deep impression for her to remember you, and most importantly you get her to start chatting with you.
2. Ask her some questions. It is easiest for someone to start talking to you by having you to start asking some questions. When you ask a question, you have to get an answer from that person unless she really hates you at the first sight. But chances of such incident happening is also really low.
3. Ask her for a favor. Approach her and ask if she could help you look after your belongings for a short while as you have some errands to run. When you come back, you can thank her by offering to give her a treat at a nearby Starbucks café.
4. Offer her some help. Be a gentleman and offer her some help when you see her carrying tons of stuff. She will return you a thank you and your conversation can start from there.
There are unlimited ways and methods you can use to approach any women depending on the situation that you are in. There is never a bad situation, just bad techniques.
Tags: Humorous, funny, woman, help, favor, approach
Wed, May 7, 2008 10:02 am By Judy Sly
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
I think this is one of those questions that will outlast the world!
There are a few sure fire ways to tell if she is available.
You can tell she is available because she says call her anytime…and she means it. You can call her anytime of day or night and she never has to talk in “hushed” tones.
When the two of you are on the phone, she doesn’t sudden start talking all off the wall when someone walks in the room.
You can tell she is available when she has things on lay-away. Believe it or not that is a sure fire way to tell! Very few women that are involved have to use the lay-away plan. (Yes! I am serious!)
She always refers to her “Ex” as her Ex. She never slips and calls him her “husband”.
If she has anything nice to say about her Ex, she might not be available.
Ask her “hypothetically” speaking, how would she feel if her Ex started dating one of her friends? Gauge her reaction…you will find a lot of clues here…
Find out how long the divorce has been pending. If it has been over a year, I would worry about her availability! Think about it…
If you constantly hear male voices in the background at some really odd times, and when you ask about it she becomes quite defensive! Supposedly he is there either picking up or dropping off the children. (They don’t have a court order for specific times?)
How can you tell she is available? She is always available for you!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into your reality Today!
Tags: Dating, Love, Interest, available, single
Sun, March 30, 2008 5:38 pm By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
So she decided to come over… great news! So now its time to get geared up to playthe part of a top host! Part of making anyone feel comfortable at your place involves a showing of hospitality. This doesn’t mean you bake a pie; just follow these tips:
• Keep a drink other than beer in the fridge and offer it. If you know your guest has a favorite beverage, consider getting some.
• Keep ice in the freezer.
• Should you be so lucky as to get lucky, keep tea and coffee in the house. Milk that hasn’t curdled is also a good idea. If you never use milk, pick up some powdered coffee creamer for the cupboard — the stuff take years to go bad.
• Finally, invest in some food. Snack food is also recommended.
Make sure you add a dash of chivalry and she’s sure to go gaga for you!
Tags: host, dinner, come, over
Wed, March 26, 2008 12:27 pm By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
If words convey what is running in your mind, your body language can convey what your persona is. When you are dating a woman, your body language can send her a signal whether you are the “one” or ham-fisted who will spoil her mood. So guys, pay a lot of attention to your body language. Follow a few tips:
Don’t be taut:
Chill out. Relax your facial muscles and don’t tense your jaw.
Voice quality:
Don’t rush. Speak calmly, slowly and confidently. The tonal quality of your voice can be very obsessive!
Don’t droop:
Don’t slouch and raise your shoulders every now and then. She will think that you are nervous. Keep them relax at all times.
Your overall body movement:
Do not make it seem that you are rushing for time.
If you body language perfectly matches what you say, you will succeed with women. So guys mind your non-verbal communication with her and take the lead in the dating game!!
Tags: Body Language, voice quality
Sat, March 1, 2008 10:19 am By James Coolridge
Printer friendly version
Email to a friend
Are you on a date today? If yes, then you need to be careful on this “judgment day”. One mistake and your sweetheart may get upset. You need to be thoroughly prepared while dating her.
Steps to follow:
Dress nicely: Take care of what you wear. Don’t embarrass your date by looking mismatched. The whole evening may get dull by your messy outfit.
Be careful with your compliments: Don’t give her compliments that may sound unusual. Instead of a boring “You look nice”, say “I love your hairstyle”, that way you will score more.
No ‘historical facts’ on a date: Don’t spoil the romantic mood by recalling your past, your ex, her ex, your parents or her father.
Call her up if you have said so: If you don’t, you are a jerk and a liar. Don’t give a chance to be treated as such.
Boasting is strictly prohibited: Be what you are. Don’t boast about big cars, bank balance and so on, which may irritate your date.
Mention about her qualities: Tell your date what you like about her. Don’t just focus on her physical, but her overall personality. This may impress your sweetheart.
All these and you will have a memorable time with your date! And never look upon another woman when you are on a date.
Tags: Dress Nicely, prepare yourself for Dating
|  |
|