When the thought of a make out session is hijacked by your impending work deadlines, serious damage control is in order.
At times you might have had a terrible day at work, long hours of meetings, and your phone continuously ringing. All you can think of is your comfortable bed with no, not your partner, but some pillows for company. If such is the case you are not alone in the race. Job pressure, big city blues, overall lack of time leads to lack of intimacy in the bedroom. In other words, your interest to intimate fades out with time. You start considering it as a work and stop enjoying even the thought of intimating. The main culprit is nothing but fatigue-both physical and mental.

Here are a few tips that will help you overcome your problem:

• If you are too tired to do it at night try morning sex.Its the time when you are well rested. If low energy is the problem try and work out more.

• You can try mood enhancers such as aromatherapy, sexy scents or sexy thoughts, play yours and your partner’s favorite music.

• Don’t treat sex as a job that you have to get over with as fast as possible. Give time to lovemaking. Try and be romantic.

• If there is no time plan some exclusive time for lovemaking. And try and make that time the most memorable one which you can cherish for times to come.

• Since your relationship is some years old now don’t take each other for granted. If you do so there would be no charm left in your relationship.

• If you want to relax your self when you back from office meditate and shed all stress and anxiety and then think of lovemaking.

• Good sex will energize you emotionally and the adrenaline rush can result in high energy levels.

Sex life should be important for you. You have to prioritize and make the effort to create the ambience or schedule time for it.Sex is said to be the glue that holds couples together and also remember that will be the first one to wear out when you are busy with work or over stressed in life. Sexual frustration can precipitate a downward spiral and pull you down helplessly .It also prevents you from being able to reduce your stress. No sex leads to even less sex.

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